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A Movement to Jail Spanking Parents? Really?

What would you say if you met a parent who said to you, “It is my right to do whatever I want with my child.”  Would you feel torn between respecting that parent’s right or feel compelled to act on the part of the innocent child?  I’d like to hear from my readers on what your thoughts are.  Recently on a social media discussion board, I was accused of being a part of a diabolical movement to take away the rights of parents who choose to use punitive and possibly harmful discipline with their children.

What to do When Your Child Craves Attention

 
 
Does it happen to you?  Your child seems to constantly crave attention and just when you're the busiest?  It can be very frustrating because you feel like you give your child lots of attention and she just continues to want more.  Keep in mind that anything that takes your attention away, such phone calls, work, the television, and even other people can make your child feel like she has competition for you.
 
The number one thing to know about satisfying a young or even an older child's attention is to keep quiet when you're giving it to them.

Is American Idol Affecting Our Children?

I teach parents how to help shape their child's world by helping to raise an emotionally balanced and peaceful child, and one that pays less attention to what's going on in the outer world.  It is not healthy for us to raise our children caring about what's happening on American Idol or Jersey Shore.  We must do this by helping our children develop a greater awareness of their connection with their inner self and their intuition.  The constant barrage of reality and talent 

One Imporant Thing to do for Your Child Today

Ever find yourself thinking about a great intention, such as making a date with someone special in your life, only to realize later that you didn’t do it?  We have to accept the fact that most of us are living incredibly busy lives with so much to accomplish in any given day, week, month, or year.  We definitely know that we don’t want to end up on our death bed thinking about all the things we didn’t get done.  This means that we can’t just rely on our ability to remember to do something, we have to learn and use a process to help us get it done.

Teaching Children Gratitude

Avoid forcing your child to say thank you this holiday season.  Doing so does not help them develop the gift of gratitude, it only forces them to do something they may not want to do naturally at first.  Be sure that you are providing lots of examples of how to feel grateful for things, especially when they do things for you.  I watched a battle build between a parent and young child in a store when the parent tried to force the child to say thank you when another adult gave something to the child.

Do you wish your kids were more thankful?

The holidays are a good time to reflect on our children's ability to be thankful for what they have.  Doing so requires us to first reflect on how well and how often we demonstrate gratitude for them.  Being thankful does not come naturally for most children, as they see the world from an egotistical point of view; they are the center of the universe and everyone else encircles them and provides for them.  It takes time and patience for children to develop the ability to behave in grateful ways, but also to feel being grateful for what they have.

Why Love and Logic Has it Wrong

I read with interest, Love and Logic’s Jedd Hafer’s entry in this week’s newsletter to parents in regards to handling sibling rivalry. The one thing that he stated that I agree with is that the argument belongs to the children, not the parents.  I even support his position that the adult caregivers should state the obvious to the kids by saying, “It sounds like you guys are having a problem (getting along) and it will be interesting to see how you solve it.”  But where Mr. Hafer has it wrong in my opinion, is in his suggestion for what to do if the kids don’t solve it quickly and the parents have to get involved.
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